Monday, May 23

Heads up, ladies

“Forget the guy that doesn’t care for you, the guy that cheats on you, uses you for sex and denies it. The guy that abandons you for his friends and the guy that dumped you because he ‘was sick of it’. Forget the guy that puts you last and the guy that calls you when it’s convenient for him. Forget the guy that calls you cute and pretty, instead of beautiful. Forget the guy that puts you down, that isn’t proud of you, that competes with you. Forget the guy that won’t take no for an answer, and the guy that makes you cry yourself to sleep. Forget the guy that gets with other girls, that hurts you ‘unintentionally’, yet does it time and time again. Forget the guy that calls you begging for forgiveness, he isn’t worth it. Forget the guy that you can’t trust, forget the guy that has made months of your life miserable. Forget the guy that you had to listen to complain about other girls when you were in love with him. Forget the guy that ruined your other relationships. Forget the guy that makes you wait for him. Forget the guy that ‘doesn’t want a relationship’ when you know he just doesn’t want you. Forget the guy that thinks of someone else while you’re thinking of him. Forget the guy that lies every day. Forget the guy that doesn’t know how to love you. Forget the guy you can’t forgive. Forget the guy that made it clear he could forget about you.

- eletheowl, Tumblr

Don't be a fool to love somebody who doesn't love you the way you love them. Don't be a fool to think that accepting every flaws of his makes him appreciate you as a good girlfriend. Don't be a fool to think he'll know how much nights you've wasted bawling your eyes out over him. Don't be a fool to give him what he wants, and think that he'll love you more for it. Don't be a fool to dismiss the fact that your guy is adding random girls on any social network just because he wants to make "friends" and let him get away with him. (in fact you should have dumped his fucking sorry ass). Don't be a fool to hold on to a thin layer of hope, hear him mentioning abt changing and believing that he will make things better, it will become a cycle. Don't be a fool anymore, because to him, you're the ultimate prey for his sick love game and girls, we deserve to be treated with love and respect, not used and abused. Don't be a fool anymore, because you will be the one who'll end up badly hurt instead, and be emotionally scarred for the rest of your life.

4.30am, truly heartfelt thoughts.

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